Tizzers' Favourite Gambits to Excuse Griefing

Let me publish this as a post, not just as a response to her silly/abusive/manipulative bullshit, as it's an important principle that doesn't only apply to her.

Tizzers/Jordan's response to this post about legions of Woodbury/Wrong Hands griefers, following the identical pattern she and her confreres set up a decade ago, with their same prims, harassing me and my tenants  -- something she never, ever condemns:

Yikes. Just saw this post in my Google alerts...

Prokofy you *really* have to let go of the past.

I know we've had our differences and there was a time when I was an insufferable little shit in Second Life. We were all young and dumb once, but things change and people grow up.

I am in my 30s with a career and a mortgage. The last thing I have time for is bothering you in SL. Please move on. I have.

~Tiz/Jordan

 

This is Tizzers/Jordan's favourite gambit, and has been for years, "Why, I'm actually a mature, law-abiding citizen now and you have something wrong with you."

She/they love to say "Why, we were all young and dumb once and we all did bad things, and gosh, golly, I was a shit but geez, get over it, it's been 10 years."

"Why, we had our differences but.." as if the problem here is a "disagreement" about buying land deliberately on my sim from a fellow griefer to harass me with years with giant refrigerators or giant Stalin buildings is "a difference" about "art" and not griefing. As if spamming my sims with pictures of abortions is an "art problem" or a failure to appreciate "the transgressive behavior of minorities" on my part -- a "difference of opinion" rather than a crime. As if legions of asshole alts putting out effigies of me maimed or killed is a "difference" in how you approach the issue of utilization of the affordances of virtual worlds, and not crime. And so on.  This is the sort of silly fatuous bullshit that sounds "mature" and "balanced" for those who don't know the history and is merely designed to continue abusive behavior. "We were all young and dumb once..."

Except...I wasn't young and dumb once. I was a 50-year-old single mom of two children with two RL jobs who ran a business as an adult in SL and didn't grief, target, or harass people, I abuse-reported them and published their bad behavior. Different! I didn't obsess, I merely reported, documented, published. I grew up learning these methods in the civil and human rights movements and I thought they should be applied to the problem of what is essentially virtual crime and even terrorism in SL. I still believe that. Usually in RL, criminal and terrorists don't take these things to the word salad/tables turned/trolling levels that we know Russian operatives and their bots are capable of (the Bolsheviks really set the model for this kind of abusive/disguising/manipulative behavior in RL and have perfected it over a century, and their heirs use it today, which is why I reference them, not because I believe there are "Reds under the beds" or "Commies coming to get me." My more sophisticated analysis doesn't just go over their heads; they believe they have more sophisticated analysis backed by their professor friends who excuse "transgressiveness" and think I'm a neocon/conservative/crazy cat lady. It's hilarious! "We had our differences..."

Except, there isn't misunderstandings, mutual guilt, mutual responsibility in the griefer-victim relationship; it's the griefer's fault. Our society is maturing enough to say that sexual harassment isn't the fault of the victim's "short skirt" but the harasser, yet griefers in SL on the left and extreme left can never admit that their victims aren't guilty or mutually responsible for their "short skirts" either. A short skirt in this case is land that allows open building for the convenience of tenants, that is overwhelmingly more used by them and not abused by griefers; a short skirt is an open group that is overwhelmingly used by tenants for their convenience, far more than the occasional griefer.

Who says we can't have an open society with open groups and open land in a virtual world, and that it is OUR fault for insisting on this, and not the fault of those who abuse it occasionally? That's the position of LL and the griefers, however, and I might add hackers/ crypto kids in RL -- it's always the victims' fault. They didn't have good security. They're the problem. Why, griefers/hackers only help them become more secure. LOL.

Perhaps we should try telling sexual abusers that they help their victims to stop wearing short skirts or never getting drunk on dates instead of prosecuting some of them. Like that?

Jordan achieved a transgender transformation I'm told, I hope that made her life better. Jordan lost RL jobs because he was an asshole, I hope she has a better time with this now, and so on.

But wait, Tizzers is not capable of coming into SL to harass me or other people on a day off or holiday? On a bad day when she needs a psychological "lift" in pulling off the wings of flies? Please, we're not children, we've seen how this works, for years.

And Tizzers little pals, whom he/she supported, incited, covered for for years and years aren't in fact still doing this in groups she made? Please, we are not children.

And any new Woodbury/Wrong Hands/whatever kids coming along and following this "tradition" are somehow completely severed from their grandfathers' and grandmothers' partisan work? Please, we are not children. The griefing objects THEY made are in the hands of the new generation, and they bear responsibility, just like Kalashnikov does for his "invention" even if they don't personally participate on the front line any more. Please, we are not children.

People who lie for decades can't be expected to get their Eddie Haskell routine believed in later years when they endlessly used this method of pretending they were innocent and people like me were crazy cat ladies for years.

So I'm not "moving on" because there are still griefers created/spawned by/still supported/still excused by/still actually alts of Tizzers even if someone can prove (and that wouldn't be her little friends of her Lindens) that she is "not guilty" any more. For the simple reason is that I am still griefed in the way SHE was responsible for. The end.

And BTW, abuse-reporting these people and asking my tenants to abuse-report them isn't somehow living the life of a cowed, obsessed, failing to move on sort of person. It's just a business owner's duty.

What I noticed as salient about all these frequent "move on" posts of Tizzers is that she never, ever condemns her own past behavior or the current bad behavior of her friends/alts/followers/heirs. Never. That's the problem. It's always about me. And I'm not the problem. They are.

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[DJ Duck Tales]

Everyone knows Prok and Henry been french kissing...

Best place for Ravenglass is down the toilet

[Mr. Skinner]

In fact, Tizzers said, insisted, in 2012 that he had "moved on" and "never logged into SL anymore" etc. etc. Of course we all know that wasn't true. Only a few months later Tizzers' new group and sim Sandvich were deleted and he and dozens of his friends were banned, again. He publicly admitted all this and said it was all deliberate, an attempt to troll Linden Lab (ummm, ok?). And he had new sims and groups that were deleted/banned in both 2014 and 2016 if I remember correctly. And right now, Tizzers has a new sim and a new group, again. It must be the 7th incarnation or something. So AFTER Tizzers claimed he had no interest in SL and never logged into SL anymore and bashed those people (like Prok) who "remained in SL", a "dying game", he has had AT LEAST FOUR new sims/groups/communities that he invested huge amounts of time and effort into. The trouble is, when you repeatedly lie, year after year, people won't believe anything you say.

Tizzers hosts parties in a sim known as Winterfell these days, where people dress up as Potteresque schoolchildren. Rumor has it that Prokofy is widely mocked for her writings at these parties.

[Jim Korpov]

What year is it? It's 2018, and the "90 pounds of boy in 100 pounds of man" who is really too old for this is still griefing to shore up her poor self esteem and poor upbringing on the Internet without parental love and supervision.

If it isn't "actually Tizzers" it's some comrade of hers or some spawn of hers, doesn't matter. Bolshevism has survived 100 years with these methods.

https://i.imgur.com/HnbeOCY.jpg

[KorpovHerpovDerpov]

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[Mike Lorrey]

You know, its been many years since the silly times in SL passed. You'd think that a mature woman in the declining years of her life would move on to more important concerns like "How am I going to fund my retirement on the declining sales of a Boris Yeltsin autobiography translation nobody wants to read?" or "Is my CIA/AirAmerica pension going to be enough to fund my mental health treatment at Bellevue and my cat food budget?"
Yes Tiz has moved on, has a fantastic six figure job in Hollywood. I'm much the same in the gaming and blockchain industries.
We should all recognize that all the drama was there because Linden Lab was such a shitty company building a shitty virtual world. Their walled garden business model is abominably anti-human and exploitative.
I am dreadfully sorry that I trolled the shit out of you for so many years, siccing you on Woodbury in the first place, then getting you to quit SLCC by offering you a panel position to debate Moot of 4chan, among many other things. I knew you'd freak the way you did because you are entirely predictable, like a bot.
I'm even sorry I posted a pic of your apartment building on the SL Facebook group this past February or whatever. I've got far more important things to do in the world than to perpetuate old grudges and dramafests. Same goes with Tiz. Tiz and I learned to bury the hatchet, when we figured out who the real enemy was who was manipulating us all (no not you Kalolz, you are a putzy pawn too). Do try to grow up and demonstrate the wisdom of your years?